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Love and consent!

 In majority, nobody in the World loves anyone, I’m leaving some space for exceptions which are quite rare to occur! People always associate some selfish motives, not necessarily extrinsic, with their love. They sometimes, try to satisfy their intrinsic ego, unknowingly. Here is where people need proper counselling. Consent isn’t a mere fancy word used by pseudo liberals in abundance but it has meaningful real life impact. You love someone it’s your consent if you want to be in relationship you need mutual consent. Someone may like you, like sharing time with you but not okay getting into relationship with you, and even love you but not intended to spend their whole life with you. That’s their consent, if you love them you’re supposed not to respect them as person but also their opinions, their will and their consent. If you don’t do so, you’re just satisfying yourself self either extrinsically or intrinsically and you’re selfish, bloody cheater not respecting the person you love as whole. You are cheating with your love’s personality, in a way that you like another personality (not necessarily person) in the presence of a personality you pretended to love. You’re cheater!! Whether it’s unknowingly, doesn’t make any difference at all. You failed as human, as lover. 


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